A transformative view on sex

In a world where conversations about sexuality often lack depth and sincerity, the words of Jesus from Matthew 5:27-30 provide a powerful and necessary call to reflection. Here, we delve into His teachings not only about physical actions but also about the attitudes of our hearts, particularly regarding sex and relationships. It is a reminder that the essence of His message transcends time, calling us to honor one another as created in God’s image.

As the speaker pointed out, Jesus challenges the Pharisaical mindset that equates mere external compliance to the laws with righteousness. He states, “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery,’ but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” This profound statement unveils the reality that our thoughts and intentions matter just as much as our actions.

Jesus is particularly addressing men, acknowledging their unique struggles with lust, but His message invites reflection for all. The speaker highlighted the disturbing trends in modern society, pointing out how the sexual revolution has disproportionately favored men, often to the detriment of women. Author Louise Perry notes that this cultural shift has led to a “sexual disenchantment,” causing significant harm and longing for deeper intimacy instead of casual encounters. She poses important questions: “What do we lose when we prioritize freedom over everything else?” and, “Why do so many women desire a kind of sexual freedom that serves male interests?”

The call to men is not merely about refraining from lust but rather about recognizing the profound impact their behavior can have on women and society. “Stop playing your sexual games,” Jesus implores. To truly honor the women in their lives, men are invited to adopt a new set of standards for their desires and actions. This call to respect stands in stark contrast to the world’s narrative of casual sex as liberation. The biblical view champions sexual desire but insists it be expressed within the sacred boundaries of marriage.

The discussion further illuminates the connection between sexual purity and spiritual health. The speaker aptly reminds us that “lust isn’t just an appetite looking for a meal; it can lead to devastation for oneself and others.” Jesus is not merely issuing a set of rules but urging us to understand that our sexual choices bear weight. He emphasizes self-control, stating, “If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away.” This hyperbolic language underlines the seriousness of the matter, NOT to encourage physical harm but to inspire radical change in how one lives.

As the speaker concluded, we cannot forget the grace we find in the gospel. For those who have struggled or failed in these areas, there is hope. Jesus took our shortcomings to the cross; through Him, we can find renewal and redemption. “Though I have fallen, I will rise,” echoes the heart of Micah 7:8. It is a powerful reminder that no one is beyond the reach of God’s forgiveness and mercy.

So, how can we practically apply these teachings in our daily lives? It begins with introspection: reflect on our thoughts, attitudes, and choices regarding our sexuality. Are we nurturing genuine relationships? Are we honoring ourselves and others as God’s creation? Let us make commitments to seek accountability, foster meaningful connections, and approach sexuality with the respect it deserves.

If you feel called to explore these teachings more deeply, we invite you to join us at Knox Evangelical Church in Old Strathcona, just north of Whyte Avenue in Edmonton. Together, let’s navigate these challenging questions and embrace a journey of growth and understanding. Don’t forget to check our Knox Event Calendar for upcoming opportunities to gather in fellowship, worship, and study.